This is how the text conversation went:
Her (H): UR A BIG LIAR
Me (M): Excuse me?
H: I know *insert daughter's name* s der.
M: She isn't.
H: Really? We wil see.
M: I can't change you of your beliefs. But don't accuse people they are liars. It simply isn't done. And its rather rude. I'm sorry if I am sounding a little off my manners here but you, texting me, quite early at that, and telling me I'm a liar is wrong.
H: I know u mean well letting her stay wit u. But pls b honest f she's der or not. Bcuz f not, her boyfriend s lying wid us 2. Pls don't let *name* manipulate us all. Wer just concernd. Tnx.
M: I'm sorry. I'd rather not tarnish what little left of my dignity and reputation. In that note, I'll stoptexting too, like I stopped texting/taking *name*'s calls.
~~~~~texts stops for minutes~~~~~~
H: So, pls tel me wats d name f ur friend where *name* stayd? I need 2 know.
H: Give me ur frend's name or else we will c 2 it dat *name* will stay wid u.
M: Please. Just stop. You don't even have your facts right. I'm not judging you. But, first you accuse me of a liar. Now you are saying its not my house but my friend's. See, where is the logic in this argument?
Please don't threaten me like this. I highly respect you. But shouldn't you be talking to your daughter instead of harassing me with your slanders.
H: I know she contacted u & I have gatherd dat she's mentioning ur name 2 dos am talking 2. Sori, but am so angry right now!
****This is posted for transparency. I don't get how just cause the boyfriend called the parents immediately I am the liar. And secondly, I've known this girl for half a decade now, this is the first time it happened, also she happens to be dating that guy, so why couldn't they figure the guy as the liar? Thirdly, why don't they ask the girl? She told me she was texting her dad. Was she lying to me too?
Trust is the most valuable commodity in the society. I won't ruin trust just to protect people. I am raised with values.
Not sure what I feel.
xxx,
K <3
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